The concept for Remarkably Resilient came to Kathleen Harnish McKune, CEO of TeamTech, in April 2017, while facilitating a series of joint meetings between the trauma-informed movements in St. Louis and Kansas City. During a Trauma 101 workshop, Kathleen stepped away from the front of the room to listen and learn. A questionnaire for Adverse Childhood Experiences (known as “ACEs”) was given out, and she found she had scored a nine out of a highest possible score of 10. When the data graphs for Kansas and Missouri were shared, her score revealed that she was in the 17.3% of the population with four or more ACEs, and she began to understand that the childhood she and her identical twin sisters had experienced was far from the norm.
This would become a “lightbulb moment” for Kathleen. Her younger twin sisters, Sharon and Karen, would later take the ACEs questionnaire, both scoring 10. Kathleen listened that day and learned about the neuroscience of trauma, realizing this science could answer two lifelong questions the sisters had:
- Why did all three of them have, and continue to develop, chronic diseases?
- And how had they been able to break the multi-generational cycle of incest, abuse, and neglect in their paternal family?
On her way home from the Trauma 101 workshop, Kathleen called her sister, Karen, to share the insight and pledged to further study the neuroscience of trauma. Kathleen embarked on a two-year journey to learn everything possible about ACEs, trauma, the neuroscience and neurobiology of trauma, its impact and resilience. That study period ended with a white paper she co-authored and presented entitled “Moving the Neuroscience of Trauma Into Action” at the 2018 Johnson County Juvenile Cross-System Collaboration Summit.
After 55 years of silence, now equipped with an understanding of the neuroscience of trauma and its impacts on the brain and body, Kathleen, Karen and Sharon were ready to share their stories first with each other, and then to the world, to raise awareness about incest and trauma, and shed light on their journeys of survival and resilience. On October 29, 2019, they debuted their keynote presentation and book, “Remarkably Resilient: Community Matters” at the Johnson County, Kansas, Community Violence Action Council Conference (COMVAC).
This work has brought the sisters’ story to thousands of people in the form of presentations, workshops, videos, a book, self-guided materials and ultimately, a nonprofit organization: Remarkably Resilient, Inc.